A couple of weeks ago, my school hosted its first Breakfast of Champions.
The purpose was to celebrate students who demonstrate characteristics of a champion: someone who goes about their every day with strong charisma, willingness to learn, and commitment to an inclusive and friendly learning environment. We value traits such as compassion, forgiveness, and responsible citizenship, but how do we acknowledge and celebrate these if we are solely focused on academics?
The idea came from one of our teachers, Angela DiFede. She put forward the idea first to the principal, then to academic council, then staff. There was resounding support for the initiative.
How it worked:
Homeroom teachers were invited to submit the name of an individual who exemplified our Catholic values; a student who wasn’t necessarily a leader in the traditional sense, but one who showed thoughtfulness, respect, caring, empathy, and/or love towards their peers. They were invited to write a Thank You card to the student which the students opened up at a breakfast which was organized in their honour. I teared up continuously as I watched students open up their letters and read them. Students themselves were tearing up. Here is the slideshow that played with snippets of what the teachers said:
Ms DiFede, who was also the emcee of the event, invited students to share how they felt reading their letters. Some of the words they said out loud were:
Flattered
Proud
Thankful
Overwhelmed
Joy
Surprise
The Breakfast of Champions event provided an opportunity to celebrate our students and show them that we value their goodness and kindness.
The Ripple Effect
I was so moved by the breakfast, that I decided to recognize the students who came into the Library Learning Commons every day. The kids who are polite and respectful towards us and others. We got a list from the main office of all the kids who are on spare and, together with my Library tech, Maria Amodio, we wrote notes of thanks. Before we knew it, the list grew and grew. “We can’t forget this student.” And, “This student is so great!” Watching our students read our cards brought out that feeling of joy all over again. Sure it was time consuming, but their responses filled my heart and allowed me to feel joy the whole day through.
I often share that I think that the only way to eliminate any type of bullying is to create a culture of empathy and kindness. I write this blog so that you may take this idea and make it your own. Maybe within your school, among your colleagues, or in your own Library or classroom. Our maybe, as my friend Tisha Richmond shared, your student leaders can initiate something like this in person or online.
If we value character, then we should ensure we show learners that we value it. What are some ways you celebrate character?
